The following testimonials were all given with permission:
“It has been amazing to have such a safe and accepting space to have a cry and get some perspective. I can’t thank you enough for all your support, help and guidance!!” (Female, age 28)
“****** has become a lot calmer when in difficult situations at home. He is more able to listen and reason with in situations he doesn’t initially agree with.” (Parent of male child age 13)
“The methods given to help control my stress and anxiety helped a lot.” (Male, age 20)
“Coming into a counselling session was a huge step – Michele not only listened and guided our sessions but provided techniques that I could use on a daily basis between sessions to support daily life. A fantastic approach of honesty, confidentiality , and non judgemental support and guidance.” (female, age 29)
“Definitely calmer and more open to new suggestions. Feels more relaxed and less anxious – more settled. Confident now to tackle sleepovers.” (Parent of male child, age 9)
“Has helped my self-esteem and confidence improve, given me an insight into how I perceive life and helped me to manage thoughts and feelings better.” (Female, age 64)
“Counselling has completely transformed my life. Nine months ago I felt alone and frail. Thanks to Michele I understand why I feel the way I feel and also that it is okay to feel this way sometimes. I feel confident enough to control my emotions going forward and any changes that may happen I can process and move on. Thank you very much.” (Female, age 24)
“After the trauma of serious illness, I needed guidance to get back to my life. Michele helped me to see what was important and supported my decisions. When I finished counselling I felt that I could once again cope with the challenges of life. Thank you!” (female, age 59)
“She can make her voice heard. She will be insistent on something and not back down. She speaks with conviction. This has given her the confidence to speak up for what she wants.” (Parent of young person age 12)
“Michele helped me understand and deal with the changes in my life and move forward” (Young person, age 13)
“I have liked playing with the sand. I found Michele to be amazing at helping me. I have felt supported through my troubles.” (Young person, age 13)
“It helped me gain new perspective on my problems and gave me lots of techniques to handle anxiety and anger.” (Young person, age 12)
“It helped me focus on what will be, not what has been.” (Young person, age 16)
“Helped me to have a better perspective on things, such as tests. Be more reflective on how I have acted. Its good to sometimes just chat to someone and get things off my chest.” (Young person, age 16)
“Allowed me to truly understand my feelings on certain situations in my life. Has made me more thoughtful and patient. I think first now, then act.” (Young person, age 16)
“It has helped me feel less worried about things and has helped me fit in more and not be afraid to join in with others.” (Young person, age 11)
“It has been very useful and more insight into why I had previously not been coping with certain issues in my life.” (Young person, age 17)
“The strategies discussed were useful and without them I would be in a worse way.” (Young person, age 14)
“I am grateful to openly discuss concerns without worrying about upsetting others lives….helping me to ‘take a step back’ and evaluate with a clear mind.” (Young person, age 15)
In addition, during my time as a Bereavement Counsellor I was personally mentioned in anonymous feedback forms as “excellent….she got me talking which has made things easier” and “It was a huge relief to talk to someone who knew nothing about my circumstances, rather than talking to family and friends. It was good to offload and cry without feeling guilty”.
Some words and phrases used by counselling colleagues to describe me in feedback over the years are:
Professional You’ve been an inspiration to me Level headed Strong
Hard working Interested Engaged Conscientious Calm
Lovely person Great Counsellor She exudes warmth, compassion and friendliness
Capable and thoughtful Lovely lady, very caring
Michele I’d like to thank you for always being genuine and happy
You throw yourself into things and go for it and that has really encouraged me to make more effort